GET A CLUE!  Why Relationships Don't Work                            By Sara E. Stevenson, PhD                      Donald W. Stevenson, JD                                              $14.95      Relationship experts tell us that most marriages are likely to fail before the couple's tenth anniversary.  That seems disheartening, especially if you are doing your best to make your relationship or marriage work.  The simple truth is most relationships today just don't work.  That's probably not a surprise.  You may have already been in at least one failed relationship or know someone who has.  In fact, how many people do you know who are still happily married to the same person after more than 25 years?  Probably not many!  Today, even couples that have weathered 20-30 years of marriage are breaking up.  What's going on?      Marriage therapists and researchers point to numerous reasons why marriages and relationships fail: poor communication, sexual incompatibility, inability to resolve conflict, poor money management, and the list goes on.  While these may be contributing factors for failed marriages, therapists and researchers miss the point!  Every failed relationship can be traced to one single cause -- the lack of intimacy.  Without it, your marriage has absolutely no chance of succeeding no matter how many books you read or counselors you see. Get A Clue!  No intimacy, no relationship -- it's just that simple.  The problem is that, as important as intimacy is, very few couples know how to achieve it.

Dr. Sara E. Stevenson, psychologist and relationship coach, and Rev. Donald W. Stevenson, attorney and former senior pastor, show you how you can create or enhance intimacy and have the relationship, and ultimately the marriage, that you have always desired.